Much has happened in the past 6 months. But what's bringing me back to blogging, is the thing that fueled my blogging spirit for so many years....grief.
In March, Paul and I were able to take a short, but wonderful second honeymoon. A few weeks after we returned home, on the cusp of our family recovering from the stomach flu, we found out I was expecting a baby. Baby #6. We always count our heavenly babies too.
Within days, I was sick and tired and it began to feel very real. At 6 weeks I began progesterone injections. Caleb began asking daily when the baby would come out and play with him. At just over 7 weeks, I saw our sweet baby via ultrasound, heartbeat strong and healthy. At 8 weeks, I'd already been to Maternal Fetal Medicine to discuss the pregnancy. My antibodies were low this time around (1:4) and there was hope this baby would not need the same intense monitoring that Caleb needed.
Then yesterday at my regular doctor's appt., she couldn't find baby's heartbeat. I was 10 weeks 3 days. So she sent me off to get an ultrasound. At the ultrasound, it was very obvious that baby's heart was not beating.
So grief. It's my companion again. I do feel better today after being incredibly sad and crying tons yesterday. Maybe that's acceptance after the shock and disbelief of yesterday. May it's just today and tomorrow will be difficult again.
To complicate all the emotional stuff, we have to decide how to let things proceed. I'm not even spotting yet, so it could take awhile if we let things happen naturally. That's my preference. I'm not thrilled with waiting too long, but I'm not thrilled with the thought of having a D&C either. So for awhile - a week maybe - the plan is to wait. Many people are praying for us which is helpful. This verse was part of our devotions last night: Isaiah 49:15-16 Can a woman forget her sucking child, that she not have compassion on the son of her womb? yea, they may forget, yet will I not forget thee. Behold I have graven thee upon the palms of my hands; thy walls are continually before me.
So now I have three children on earth and three children in Heaven.